Rich friend buys everything for his attractive Hartz4 girlfriend, what can you think of that?

The son of a rich family of lawyers buys everything from his shy, but attractive, girlfriend who lives in his own apartment. So for example iPhones, Playstation, TV, etc… You also fill up the high-quality refrigerator (which he also bought) so that she can spend the Hartz4 money on Netflix subscriptions, make-up, video games, etc.

What is to be made of it?

I have experienced something like this a few times, I do not allow myself to make a judgment, but love usually blinds: That is exactly the topic! Anyone who thinks about such constellations - I think it's stupid and goes in the direction of "having to endure" - but something else that doesn't taste good to the lover is the spoil-game and the bad, bad bully who doesn't allow anyone to be in love: / So better not say anything before you have to get upset. Something like that just bothers me because I can't keep my mouth shut. But I also became calmer, especially since it always resolves itself.

The evil awakening follows at some point when something like this goes in a grotesque direction. It was the same with my brother, who had been in a relationship with a work-shy woman, until he got into debt one day because of her and her claims. Unfortunately, sometimes you have to fall deep. But then you usually never make the same mistake again. You always have to get to know the limits first!

Exploiting or wasting money you can see how you want.

The problem is that this lady remains tied up in her H4 situation. She has no reason to get her life under control independently, it can even distract her. If the relationship breaks down, it may have a problem.

In any case, I'm of the opinion that H4 services should be limited to assumption of costs and vouchers (without alcohol and tobacco products!)

When separated, she can still make good money in the brothel, looks pretty good… Haha

I do not allow myself a judgment

and then:

something like that just bothers me because I can't keep my mouth shut

Conversely, means that as soon as he earns money himself and both live together for their maintenance. So there's one alg2 receiver less.

If both of them have no problem with it, that's great.

https://www.hartz4.org/partner-zusammenziehen/#Klappt_das_Zusammenziehen_wenn_nur_einer_von_beiden_Hartz_4_bekommt

With the constellations, one of the criteria for a community of needs will be met quite quickly.

If he does it freely, there's nothing wrong with that. Everyone has to see for himself how he handles something.

How do you know that the lady is shy about work? Or is that just a guess or assumption on your part? Not everyone who purchases Hartz4 is reluctant to work!

Incidentally: if you are not the "son of the rich family of lawyers"… What does it really concern you?

Don't live together

Not yet. Can still come and with the behavior that would be a BG very quickly.

If he mostly sleeps with her or she mostly sleeps with him, you can theoretically piss anonymously. Because then there might already be a BG that should only be disguised.

Judgment and emotions are two different things. Rotesand doesn't want to judge, but emotions do come through. Is normal.

Why not? A relationship is a team and he brings the money to the team. I also earn more than my girlfriend. And with that, I also pay more. But it also reciprocates, e.g. By Most of the time the food is ready when I come home.

Then it's just that money doesn't seem to bother him in relative terms. When I was studying, an iPhone would have been unaffordable. Because the weekly shopping has already bothered me so much. This is no longer the case today, as it is relatively cheap.

And then that's probably his trick. Works yes. And he has something from…