Question may be too provocative but I couldn't think of a headline, so the following:
My friend or more of my buddy (I'm a female) knows that I saved myself money. Now he always says I should give him Netflix and buy it for him. Not because of Christmas (he doesn't celebrate it) but just because. It is my fault, I said okay, but I often said ask someone else or use a free stream page and he "ne". Incidentally, he has money himself, but his mother protects it as if he were a child and when he asks if he can have what, she asks what for and at Netflix she says no. Like I said yes okay maybe buy it. But when I think about it: I saved for my money myself and that his mother is treated like a child is also not my problem, he is al enough. But I told him okay, now he has hair on it and it is annoying even though these series are also available free of charge everywhere… Sometimes I think who is taking advantage of it, pretends that he then spends food next time and then just wants to feel good for it and so that he has no fault if I spend 10 euro each month on his netflix but he doesn't do it anyway.
should I just buy it so that it doesn't annoy him or how should I explain it to him? How can I teach him that it bothers me that he can be treated like a child and that he can buy things himself
If it bothers you:
why didn't you just say "no"? You can't do anything about your friend's childlike relationship with his mother.
I felt sorry for him
No, NEVER buy him that!
Of course he takes advantage of you. Tell him once more that you won't buy him anything because you are not responsible for it.
If he continues to be annoying, break the contact.
Besides, no one needs Netflix. There's YouTube, there's normal television, that will probably be enough until he is 18. (Just by the way: When I was a child, we had three TV channels. The program started at 4:00 p.m., during the holidays at 3:00 p.m., and ended around midnight.)
Tell him that there would be enough men to buy you Netflix, so why should you buy him Netflix as a woman…
What do you mean why should men give me Netflix?
Because maybe you are a nice girl and someone will give you something like that if you want it.
Understand that's nice thank you
