Currently, I'm often sad and desperate, because my best friend never wants to do anything. She is very (!) Introverted and whenever I ask if she wants to do something it says: No, I'm not that motivated.
I know for herself that she never does anything and sits in the room all day watching Netflix. All in all, she is often in a bad mood (from "nature") and unfortunately always infects others with it.
For example, if I write her on Whatsapp, I get an answer only 4 hours later (she has seen the message before).
I have often asked her if she would like to party with me. But she always says that nobody would like her there.
I'm really desperate because I do not know how to address them to the problem. The answers are always that she would have no motivation, would be shy and have no self-confidence.
Do you have similar experiences and advice? I'm really desperate.
Sounds like depression. Speech Sometimes with her personally. Maybe she comes to you by herself, says that she is not feeling well, etc.
You really can't help depressed people, they have to realize for themselves that they have a problem and are looking for professional help.
However, you can still be there for them, show interest in their wellbeing etc. Often people with depression svhon help to realize that it is worthwhile to change something and they are not alone, not everything is hopeless and meaningless.
I've already suspected that and also mentioned it before, but she says nothing and does not want to talk about it either. The problem is that many of her are annoyed because she always has a bad mood and misses it to others.
Yes, but that's part of her illness, she has to learn for herself that she needs help.
