About 2 months ago I met a girl (18) or she wrote to me on Instagram.
We write for a month.
I asked her two times about a meeting, she always refused, one time she had no time, because she had a lot to do for the school.
The second time I asked, it was actually the best condition, since it was on a Friday and she had all the exams behind. But she said as a reason that she is just beautiful on the sofa and Netflix looks and that she is unmotivated to do anything else.
She said to me already that she sees me only as a buddy.
Now I doubt if I still have any chances to get closer to her, because we've never met before, or should I give up Sieblieber?
So in my opinion I think that if she already says she is not interested in a relationship because she only sees you as a buddy, then I would not go any further in that direction.
It can also be that she changes her mind at some point if you continue to write with her as "buddy". Can anything happen. However, I would no longer talk about a relationship, etc., because one sometimes finds herself under pressure as a girl and tends to turn away.