Had a bit of stress with my mother in my last few days because she was planning things for me all the time without telling me. I told my mother two weeks ago that I was going to do something this Saturday. She said okay and on Thursday she suddenly said that I should help my grandma on Saturday.
I planned to meet a girl on Saturday (amicably). Then I explained to my mother that the time did not fit, but she did not care and she said only family comes first. That's why I only met her at 5 p.m. And by 8 p.m. She was gone.
That was the first time we met and the meeting was also fun and we had good conversations and such.
Yesterday I went to my father's and met a friend and somehow I was suddenly sad the whole time but I don't know why. I felt kind of empty the whole time and yesterday I was really mad at my mother because she plans things for me without telling me. It's actually not a bad thing, but it made me really upset. When I explained to my mother what was going on because she asked me why I was so sad, I explained to her that I didn't like it, that she planned things for me without asking me. Then she just yelled at me and hit me in the neck.
That's actually not a bad thing for me and my mother was probably just in a bad mood or so I have no idea.
Today I had a lot to do which somehow distracted me because of school and such. And now in the evening I'm done with everything, watching Netflix and just somehow feeling dissatisfied again, although there's no reason to. I don't know what's wrong with me.
Hm, that doesn't sound too good.
I wouldn't put up with being hit if I were you. We live in the 21st century and that is just an indictment that your mother doesn't know what to do. It is best to talk to a person you trust (dad, grandpa?) Who also has a good connection to mom and who can explain your situation in peace if she doesn't understand from your point of view. Don't try to get ready and look ahead. Have a nice evening, distract yourself and don't think too much about it.
Can be hormone-related. Depending on how old you are, hormonal fluctuations are completely normal. If you are still dissatisfied, it can also be psychological, maybe you are suppressing something that upsets you more than you think.
Tell your mother what you think, but nice and friendly.
I don't have grandpas anymore. My mother doesn't really listen to my father because they live separately and my father didn't really understand my problem yesterday either. And my grandma always agrees with my mother on principle
I've already tried, but my mom just gets aggressive and gets me wrong and doesn't even want to hear me
Oh man, I'm really sorry that your mother treats you like that. I could give other tips now, but they could be very backward
I don't think I'm pushing anything. And if it is hormone-related, what can be done about it?
And I'm 16
To be happy means to be satisfied with the unhappiness and to appreciate the happy moments in life.
Do what fulfills you and never let a single minute of your life go away by thinking negatively.
I can't do what fulfills me. Everything is closed. My everyday life is always the same and even my hobby is slowly getting boring because I just need something new
If it is hormone-related, you can either come back to the topic the next time you visit your doctor or simply wait, which is normal at your age!
