I've been keeping an eye on a man for a long time. We also had a date a long time ago, which I personally found very good and I also think he didn't think it was bad. We were eating together and then he asked me if I would like to come with him. We only watched one film. So no classic netflix and chill date 😉
5-6 days after the meeting, I asked him what he wanted or what he was after and he replied that he didn't know if he was looking for something at the moment and was just not sure. So then I asked if he wanted to do something again and he said he thought it was really cool. But somehow it never happened.
We met again at the carnival and danced together more or less drunk and he kissed me. After that there was only contact via mobile phone.
I personally like him very much and would also see our meeting as the most beautiful first date I've ever had. But it makes me extremely sad that we have so little contact. He is also my type in appearance.
I have already considered asking him if he wants to do something about the 'isolation' or if I just invite him to something. Or whether I simply tell him openly and honestly what I want 🙃
Another option would be to just let it be, since we have almost no contact at the moment and I don't want to embarrass myself unnecessarily.
What would you do?
Ha just ask him if he wants to come to you and then mess around he already kissed you even if it was drunk
What do you have to lose? Just try it
What do you have to lose now? I think there's a basic interest. Perhaps he was disappointed that he no longer ran at home? An invitation home is very clear. He may not want to look like he did everything alone. You should also make your investment.
Maybe it's too late for something serious now. But you can try it. You have nothing to lose
Those who do not act may regret it. You have nothing to lose.
I would send him a short message, write to him that you enjoyed the first date and if you can / would / like to start a repetition sometime. (Just an idea) After that you're smarter.
So I think there's still a certain tension between you, especially because you kissed after not seeing each other for a long time. Something like that doesn't happen for no reason.
Be open and honest and also tell him that you are interested in him, you have nothing to lose! But if I were you, I wouldn't start with you wanting a relationship right away. This is far too fast and will overwhelm him.
Get to know each other easily and meet often, then you can still talk about the topic of relationship.
So, write to him or call him after the Corona period!
