Cuddling and hands still hold friendship?

Gr
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Lately, she came to me and we looked after a little talk Netflix. She sat down on the bed first and then she said I could put my head on her legs if I wanted. I did that then. During the film, she sometimes "scratched" my hair and yes. We also held hands then. (went from me) Later we watched TV and there she sat down next to me after a while and leaned against me. Then I put my arm around you and held your hand. (I kissed her on the head) I'm not sure if this was more than friendship - or not. I really like you very much, but I do not know if you feel anything - well, yes.

PS: Have known us for 2-3 weeks.

PPS: Always greet us with a hug and she always seems to be happy when we're together.

I would be very happy about your answers!

EDIT: To the question: Would you kiss me? Came on the cheek yes.

Ne

For me, the behavior among young people and what is defined as "friendship" is generally not normal. Cuddling and holding hands I do in a relationship. In a friendship, this closeness is inappropriate. What she feels you will only find out by talking to her. Guessing this riddle could-would-could by chance be right or discuss contingencies through 10 and then it's something completely different.

Co

That definitely goes way more.

Gr

Well. So she does not have a boyfriend and I do not have a girlfriend. It could be a step in the direction of relationship. Only I'm - as I said - not sure if and when I should ask you. Because such a question may possibly make a lot of "broken".

Gr

Maybe I should ask you what that was for you, or how you found the evening. And to come back to your answer - I hope so.

Co

You can either appeal to them or make hints, or try to kiss them

Gr

Well, that's what I had in mind. As it is in my question, I kissed you gently on the head, without reaction from her. I also thought about kissing your hand, but then I did not do it. I just do not want to destroy the good friendship with her through such an action, if you understand what I mean.

Ma

You better get that out by tweeting her next step, taking small steps forward. Tender kiss on the forehead, then gently approach the mouth. Do not talk, but act carefully. She seems to be the type who is susceptible to something like that. My first great love started like that.

Gr

I'll try it, just do not want to destroy anything.

Ma

She will tell you when it was not meant by her. And then you say softly: "Sorry" and good. If she is not stupid, she can think for herself that you could come to her with such an idea or even have to. She certainly will not be angry. Then you'll tell her someday later that you like her very much. One possible reaction may be: "Yes, but let us take our time." Then surely nothing is lost.

But I think it is much more likely that you have her affection and that she will not mind "a little more". It was her initiative too.

I'm always talked up too much. "To talk to her". That just makes people embarrassed. Somehow the topic of love and marriage always plays into it. Nobody else can know that in your own state, but carefully study whether there's more in it, you can do that. How should it be different?

Gr

I already told her that I really like you and also that I really love you. Her reaction was an "Awww, sweetie".

Ma

Yeah, you see, you made her a bit embarrassed. Is not that bad now. But when she says, "I love you too," then the big throats are already in their heads. But at the moment she still feels rather premature. You hardly know each other yet. Whether you can love each other, you have yet to find out. But then of course with proximity. Does he want to have sex with me right away, or is he someone who has patience with me, is interested in me, good at kissing, good at caressing? That's the normal question in the girls' heads.

But of course the other level as well, the talking. What are you dreaming about? What do you want to achieve? And then the little, charming tricks: "I would like to visit the country of Myanmar, where there's a" Golden Rock. "Look at the photo, it just needs to be pushed in a bit, then it falls down the mountain. Who helps. " (Look photo on the internet.)

(Must go now, I'll be back this afternoon).

Co

Yes I know what you mean. Had such a situation synonymous times

Try hinting at relationship and see exactly how it responds and answers.

Ch

Such signals are in my experience in the wrong direction, if the reasons for it only "oh, I'm just so" - Moments happen. A man has always fussed around me and then wondered why I interpreted it differently, as he meant it. He was also too ignorant to understand that they were false signals.

COMMUNICATE what you want from each other. Nowadays too much is done without talking to each other.

Friends should keep their hands with them. And kissing has lost nothing there. Because THAT differentiates a friendship from a relationship. For my part, I do not want to be an experimental carnar for a man who "in this clumsy way wants to find out whether he is feeling well or not".

Gr

One more thing: To the question "Would you kiss me?" came on "on the cheek, yes."

Gr

One more thing: To the question "Would you kiss me?" came on "on the cheek, yes."

Gr

One more thing: To the question "Would you kiss me?" came on "on the cheek, yes."

Ch

Such "kisses on the left, kisses right-Bussis" are among some friends. Who likes it… For me personally, maximum short hugs would be welcome and farewell in it. Absolutely I do not have to do that either.

Ma

The crawling of the hair and this answer can unfortunately also mean Friendzone. Cuddle a bit further with her and test it as I said wordlessly. And careful.