Are we too young for this relationship?

I'm female, 13 (soon 14) years old and have a friend for 2 months. We sometimes even do several times a week and then usually watch Netflix together. We kiss each other and sometimes with tongue… I know, one should always listen to his gut feeling and my gut feeling tells me that it feels right. We write each other every night (like 1-3 hours) and we also tell each other (via chat and in reality) that we love each other. Oh yes, and kissing is usually the first step, but I like that too, and that's why I too, if you're interested in it. But now I have two questions for you:

Are we too young to kiss with tongue?
What do you think: is it possible for our relationship to last long, not just 3-4 months?

Thank you for your decent answers. I wish you a happy new year & a happy new year in 2019💘🎉

It is understandable that you want to live out the feelings of pleasure arising in your old age. You should just make sure that you do not ignore the important things for your personal and social development. Otherwise, you set priorities that will greatly affect your future life. In addition, you should make sure that you give yourself to love so far that you can control the consequences and be responsible. Girls who get pregnant prematurely, there are too many. Their children are suffering. Otherwise, have fun.

By the way, if the relationship lasts for a short or long time, it does not matter. It is important that you collect your experiences - and learn from them.

While kissing you can try it out, you can't be too young for that. I would not go any further.

If you want the relationship to last, then I would advise you not to do too much with each other. Otherwise, maybe one of you feels at some point harassed and wants his "freedom" again.

If it should not keep it is not too sad, believe me, there will be so many more people in your life!

1. That's different with everyone. Kissing would have been too early for ME at 14, but a buddy on the other hand had sex at the age of 13 and did not regret it either. So if you already feel ready, then everything is fine.

2. Sure, why should not that be possible? Unfortunately, it is very rare, because at that age you are still developing strongly, in the coming years, you will probably always want to discover new pages on you and try it out, your friend as well. It is important that you treat each other and do not restrict yourself too much. But theoretically it is not impossible that you grow old together, I keep my fingers crossed.