I would like to get beyond the age of 18 beyond youth welfare and my application was accepted. My youth welfare office stipulates that I go into a shared flat for young adults.
The problem is that I can't stand young people. I hate parties, Deutschrap, brand clothes, hookahs, fast cars, alcohol, Netflix etc.
That's why I'm only in contact with intelligent people (eg students). That could be considered arrogant, but if students like to do something with me, it will probably have their reasons. You choose your friends!
I also hate living in a group because I do not waste my free time with people who interest me zero. Most of the time I'm learning for school, meeting my friends or being with my family. That's why I do not depend on these people in the group, they are simply completely uninteresting to me. I have my own problems and I do not feel like dealing with such people.
Why is the Youth Office looking for me then something?
I'm going to graduate and study because I'm not a stupid Hartzer and I do not want to be associated with that.
I find your definition of intelligent people funny. Just because someone is studying, he is far from intelligent above average and straight students make up a large part of the party-goers and Netflix users
The Arrogenz, which you let hang out in these and other questions, is also horrible. You seem to have a mental health problem and probably have come to a group where it is taken care of that you can lead your life independently in the future.
Would it make sense for you to ask your friends (apparently students) if they live in a shared flat - and as soon as a place is vacant that you can move in there?
Because then you would still feel like a "like-minded", would not be alone (which you can't stand well) and can stay there, beyond the 21st year?
Maybe you would like to study in another state (or even country). But that might not be recommended, as you obviously can't be good alone and have massive prejudices when people need more support, as you need it. Maybe you should work on this fear (what others think of you). Because it seems to be a big problem for you, which also massively limits you.
If you are looking for your own WG Dir, then you should specifically ask what it looks like with parties and so on. Because some people love their studies, especially because of the parties…
