Block someone who just doesn't want to be specific and rummages?

Co
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Is that the best option in dating?

So when you have someone who doesn't want to meet, but rather writes about Netflix and all that and doesn't really know what they want. So hit no, but compliments, for example, on how great you look.

sa

Just wait a bit, maybe he'll be more open to you then.

Pi

No don't wait.

ca

I would wait ^^ sounds like he won't say what he wants because he could scare you off with it haha.

But that's how my friend was at the beginning.

I just showed him what I want and then he was open and honest with me and no longer so uptight ^^

Gr

I would write with him on the side, but no longer interpret too much and direct my attention to other things… Maybe something else will come about, maybe not, but I would take the pressure off myself and let it all come to me.

sa

Depends on how long it takes. Someone who is shy takes longer to thaw than a complete extrovert. But if after a time n one has not approached a factor x, I would consider it a waste of time. You just have to determine for yourself how long it is worth waiting for you. Just don't fall into the trap and wait forever

Ma

A little writing is ok, you want to get to know each other a little.

But at some point I want to get ahead and not just write. And if nothing comes of the guy, I suggest a specific meeting. And then I'll see what's coming.

So it's better to be active yourself than to wait forever.

Co

I've already asked, but it was just messed around. Also don't feel like talking about Netflix and cooking recipes all the time.

Co

Yes, but he doesn't want that.

Ma

Hmm, but that's what dating comes down to. No, if that is so hopeless I would not have much desire and would let it fall asleep.