What is my real me and am I pretending?

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Every day I think about who I'm and what I like for a long time. I'm 14 years old and can't answer this question. I don't know why. But I also don't know if I find out something about myself, for example that I like to watch Netflix in the evening, whether I really like doing it or whether I'm just pretending. Could you please give me advice as this topic always makes me think for a long time.

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At your age, it is absolutely normal to ask yourself what and how you really are, which is not unusual. My tip to you would be to simply take your time and not to expect a result somehow quickly, this is completely normal and you will only find out what you really are if you just try it out and observe what is fun for a long time. I don't think, by the way, that you're just imagining something is fun. Of course, you are not always completely sure, but that goes without saying

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This is completely normal. You are in puberty where your identity is developing again. At the moment you are neither fish nor meat, neither a child nor an adult. It is normal that you don't know who you are at this age. You have become a stranger to yourself. But that should have happened with the end of puberty.