Well, I'm now M / 15 and actually good with many people or even very good friends. Even if the whole thing rather in school. I meet very rarely with people from my class. Still, I do not think anyone would mind talking to me. But to get to the point: Some of my friends or rather more distant friends meet quite often to chill, for example, Netflix to see what to drink or even to smoke a shisha. But although I'm pretty good friends with people in question (good with some not so much) I've never been invited… I've been there a few times, but they've always been so unique for a special occasion. Now I'm not sure what to do, because on the one hand I would like to be there (at least now and then) but that is somehow the "thing of those" and I can't force myself on anyone by a "may I come" question want. Perhaps it is also because we do not necessarily have the same taste in music now or have a lot of same interests, although we do not run out of conversation at school, for example. Because of all the stuff I wanted to ask the public now if you have any tips etc as I could find connection or something.
Dear young colleague!
In your age you can best find a connection in a sports or other club, in a music circle, a dance or music school, at the folk high school or in a well-run youth group, such as the youth school. The Boy Scouts, the forest or hiking youth, etc.
There are far more good offers for young people in Germany than in any other country in the world, but you have to be active, get advice from your parish, the youth welfare office, the youth welfare center, the child welfare service, the town hall or district office. Take the necessary documents, report to the group, or simply go to the weekly meetings and say:
"Hello, I'm the new one - I come more often now - is it okay?"
What have you, dear colleague already taken in this direction, or have you just turned up little thumbs and waited for you, that kisses you one of the nine lovely goddesses of the gods?
Greetings from Rainer-JGS,
who used to be shy and alone, until it suddenly became clear how interesting, rich and adorable our home with all the interesting people and institutions is and above all - that it is so easy to find a connection there:
Just call or go and ask if you can join in - and then opens up a whole new door to life, which you did not even know before that they exist!
