I've had a problem finding friends for years. I have never had friends and I do not know what or how it is. I'm currently in grade 11 and I'm not talking to a single classmate. I think that's sad but I can't help it. Nobody wants to talk to me and they do not even notice me. Can someone give me some good advice on what I can do about myself or what I should do to make friends. Please contact us.
Oh more about me: I'm female, 17 years old, live in a small town with my parents zsm, have no siblings and no other relatives of my age with whom I could understand myself, I love food and watch the whole day only Netflix and RTL 2, I think everybody thinks I'm funny, even my parents.
"I do not speak to any of my classmates" Why not?
I mean, getting to other people is never easy. But I would just join in discussions.
Are you shy? Maybe you also seem to be disinterested in other people?
Surely you have a neighbor, right? How about him / her? Surely you can start a few conversations there.
I suggest that you immediately stop watching Netflix and RTL2, because you will not be any smarter. I would even say that the opposite is true. And then you are simply looking for a meaningful occupation. Environmental group, political party, sports club. And then it will automatically become something with friends. Who wants to have a girlfriend who has messed up her intelligence with RTl2?
If you're just home all day watching RTL2 and Netflix, then you do not have to be surprised that you're alone. You have also forgotten to communicate with other people, so you do not talk to other classmates.
Find an exercise in a sports club where you have to talk to each other, go to your classmates and start a conversation. The beginning is certainly difficult, but that's the only way to learn it.
