I met someone 9 days ago, we had met twice for almost 2 hours and talked about everything, the day before yesterday we stayed with his best friend. When I woke up in the morning his arms were already wrapped around me, he was already awake and we cuddled and kissed for hours while watching Netflix, I have to say that he was always the one who took the "first step". Since we live in a very fast-paced society, I now wonder whether his behavior indicates something serious or something casual π
You are just getting to know each other, so he, like you probably, wants to test whether the chemistry is right. You don't cuddle and kiss if you don't like each other.
Ergo⦠Enjoy it and let it come to you. However, I would raise the issue of whether he sees it more seriously or casually with you before you go any further. Can also be that he only wants to get you to bed. You then have to decide whether you accept that.
So, everything went much faster than expected, he wants something solid and I'm now officially assigned π
