I (16) have now met twice with a young man. We got along great and also made quite a lot of things. We have both times in public places (restaurant and just in town). Now he has suggested that we could rent an Airbnb on the next date and watch a series or a movie together, because it's always so cold outside.
Of course, I'm not stupid and I can imagine that it probably will not stay with Netflix. As long as it's just making out, that's good for me, too, but having sex with him is still too early on the third date.
Now I'm not sure what to do. To propose commitments or something else?
You can look together netflix and if he wants more you can make it clear that it is too early for sex.
However, you should do other things for the ongoing meetings and get to know you better.
Do not pull back in such a situation! If you do not want to, then you do not have to tell him that! He has to accept it and if he does not like it then forget him dear.
Do what you think is right, you can say good, be brave if he wants sex and say you think it's too early, if he really wants you, he'll accept it, if he does not, he almost certainly will not love you right.
Yes, I think so, but in the last two meetings we talked a lot about us and got to know each other.
That's fine, but still forget to keep on doing it. Because there are people who only want to go beyond the one, that's why getting to know you is good, but if you do not rush it is OK too.
