Hi
I'm (m / 16) bi
My friend (m / 15) is also bi
Dr knows that I'm bi and vice versa
Now to the question:
I would like to be with him and maybe try a few things π. (We both have no experience in the field)
But I do not want the whole (that I ask him if we want to be together) in the pants. It would be best if he would come to me and I have made only a few hints in advance.
He was with me last weekend, too. And it was nice too. (We just played a bit and watched Netflix) when we saw Netflix he also put himself on my bed (because you could look better). But that was the closest contact between us. Was that perhaps a hint on his part?
What should I do?
And how?
(I do not want to destroy the friendship)
Concrete answers help me
I do not know if that works. Namely W13 and also Bi.
But you could talk to him if he loves or even writes someone on SMS or WhatsApp. Maybe that helps a bit.
And as I would have done: I would have written about WhatsApp or SMS if he / she wants to be with me. If he / she does not want or writes no then I would ask if our friendship is destroyed now because of that. But if he / she would write then of course it would be a lucky day.
Yes, I know it's cowardly to ask but I can't say a word if he / she stands in front of me. "
I hope I could help you but that was a bad help I think
I'm always in contact with him. Let's see each other during the school break then we write. Our interests are the same
That's good then maybe you could try it.
Could you give me some tips on how to write it?
You could say, "Hey, I have a question, you are in love with someone, and if so, would you say so, but you do not have to if you do not want to!" Then he writes something and you could then answer or write "Do you want to go with me?" That just means he wants to be zsm with you, but you also have to wait for the right moment to write it! I'm female and can't promise you that it works for you but there's always a chance or?
I can give it a try
You have already established a relaxed closeness.
Stay relaxed and do a little snack together, from a small bowl, to nibble something. Maybe carrot stalks or a big apple. No industrial dry food for humans.
Smell it on lhm. This is how a conversation comes about. I always do that when it suits.
Your hands are always closest to him. So rub your hands on your armpits or on your fur. That's how you make him feel that smell.
However, I also want to tell you that you have to make a commitment if you expect something valuable.
You want to feel tenderness and gentle warmth.
Give what you want.
Realize the speed which is good for you. The fast adapts to the slow.
Do not try to duplicate any techniques.
The gentle confessions are the magical moments and time stands still.
OK good luck
But how can I find out without "destroying" the friendship?
ππ I have to frame that, beautiful answer
Turn your friendship into a friendship Plus! Make sure that everything that happens in the other's room stays in the other's room. Unless you both feel the same and make your cause public, then it's a relationship.
I think that I do not get so close to him that fast anymore. Tomorrow we both go to Munichβ¦
Speech would be possible in any case
But what should I say specifically
What has written "breeze" is not so bad.
Since you both know each other that you're bi, it should not be a problem.
Just tell your friend that you would like to try a few things with a boy, because you just have no experience. Then you just ask him if you can "try" him a little bit. It's hard to imagine him saying no.
Since you both will certainly like it, there's nothing against it that you'll do it more often.
If this may even develop into love and a relationship, it fits. Otherwise, you just have friendship +, which is not bad either.
If you do not dare to ask him directly, just say next time that you're in the mood to get you down. Everything else should then result almost by itself.
That you want to frame it is a huge compliment for me. I notice something red.
