I wanted to ask, where does it actually come from, that you can laugh with really bad black humor and cynicism? What kind of personality structure is behind it? And if other people "grind" themselves hard, are you the first to collapse with laughter? Does that automatically make you a bad person?
If I cut myself apart, for example, when cycling or something, I run into a glass pane or something like that, I'm the first to laugh at myself. I just find something funny and don't think it would be bad if others would laugh at me because I can only imagine that it must have looked funny how hard something can backfire. Others, however, are always so pissed off when you laugh. It is not about the person as such, whom you make fun of or who treat yourself to harm. You don't wish that to anyone, but if it does happen, it's kind of very funny for me. My environment thinks my humor is great and we always laugh a lot, but they still often widen their eyes because a lot of things are sometimes too blatant for them and then it says "It's really bad, you can't laugh at that!"
For me it was often like this: the more bad, the more fun.
Just to give one example: Anthony Jeselnik (I strongly recommend "Fire in the maternity Ward" 🤣 for like-minded people on Netflix). For me a man of the professional class. Of course, he too is often criticized for tearing jokes that are degrading and humiliating. What distinguishes those personalities who simply love black humor from others? And no, I would not say that we laugh at something to feel "better"! No, just no.
Strong advocate of black humor here,
no, it doesn't make you an evil person to have black humor. The principle is usually that you don't take it seriously. If I now e.g. Making a joke like "It doesn't matter if you're black or normal, we're all humans" is a bad joke, but of course it is not meant seriously.
Some people have a sense of humor, I don't think there's a personality structure behind it.
