Why is my family treating me like dirt?

I have a busy family.

My mother just lies in bed and watches Netflix (she works 3 times a week). My two siblings do not clean up their rooms and do not behave well.

Meim's father works every day (except weekends). We're not poor, but also not very rich or wealthy.

Since I'm 11, everyone treats me like a cleaning lady. I do a dishwasher, a washing machine, vacuuming, dusting and cleaning up every bed. For example, if I say, 'Can't you help me?' 'Is her answer:' You do not even have to do this! ' Of course I have to do that… Otherwise there would be trash everywhere.

They behave pretty ungrateful!

How can I get them to do something?

I'm more likely to ask where this is "the truth" - because you are 12, 13 or even 14 years old.

Furthermore, you seem to have a variety of personal, psychological problems in which you can only advise you to seek help with the help of your parents psychotherapeutic support.

If they do not support you - then contact the responsible youth welfare office and ask for help. All the best.

You become a victim because you make yourself a victim or even make yourself.

You take the work off others, so do not be surprised if they let you do the work.

My advice: For a while (even if it's hard for you to see all the filth) just clean your room and pull it back to the food for my sake.

If somebody asks you stupid, you just say, "I'm striking and I want money for my work"

Because you are not the mother and you have to educate your siblings. Getting kids to do their housework is a lot of work for ordinary parents. Usually you have done the job much faster and cleaner when you do it yourself. But as a father or mother you have to make sure that the children learn to do their share. If necessary with educational pressure.

You have neither the job of the parents nor the educational means for it, because you just laugh at everyone.

So join the strike!

And if all the dirt gets out of hand, then you should really turn to the youth welfare office. Because at some point that borders on neglect, what threatens your family.

Only as long as you keep the shop laboriously and single-handedly, does not even your father realize that there's something wrong. Maybe you should talk to him first. For he seems to be the only one besides you who works properly in this family (just not in the household).

Where is this written that she is 13 or 14 times? She is 12 and since she is 11 she has to do everything.

I used to change my age with other questions because I wanted to stay a bit anonymous. I'm really 12

OK thanks