How more matches on Tinder?

Bo
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Since I get fewer matches I thought I might change my profile picture and my description.

Which of the two should I take as a person?

Badboy: bad behavior, only focused on ons and sex, showing a huge ego, only active in the evenings because of Netflix and chill.

Richboy: Photos with money, big cars, entrepreneur description, show-off, flexing with money, showing Rolex. Description: Buy anything you want.

Which of the two

Pa

Neither will work. So you only get fewer matches.

So

Until you meet a real bad girl who wants to do things that make you cry.

Bo

I saw experiments on YouTube that Richboy had 32 matches within 1 hour

Pa

This is fake

You shouldn't be so naive and believe everything. These experiments are not real.

Bo

I also saw that she came to the meeting after only 1 day of writing, she went back because he didn't come with a Ferrari. Ridiculous

Pa

That is also fake. That was a girl from his environment. It's all played, finally understand that.

Bo

Ok, but as a normal-looking person you really have zero chances at tinder and clubs are even closed, otherwise I don't know what to do. I only get matches of 250kg women, don't feel like them (not meant to be angry, not my type)

Pa

Wait. As tense and desperate as you are looking, it can only go wrong. First you have to learn to be happy on your own.

Bo

Tired of being alone Happy has been alone all these years

Pa

But not happy. And you radiate your despair, no woman wants that.

kn

How can you be happy when you're lonely? If you can handle that, ok, but everyone has different needs.

Pa

It's about loving yourself and understanding that your happiness in life does not depend on a partner. If you can't love yourself, you can't love anyone else, let alone be loved.

kn

Well, I need that, this talk of self-love is rubbish.

Pa

No, that's not nonsense and with your comment you confirm it.

kn

That's just esoteric nonsense because you're spreading here.

Pa

This has nothing to do with esotericism, but with the human psyche.

kn

How can one be satisfied with one's life when one is living alone? We humans have at least basic social needs. A hermit life as you imagine is not for everyone.

Pa

Just because you haven't had a partner for a few years doesn't mean you live as a hermit. 🤦♀️

kn

Already enough to develop depression. And who guarantees you that it will last for a few "years?"

Pa

You're talking against a wall. If someone is as narrow-minded as you, I'm not surprised to be single. And those who develop depression as a result of this have problems with themselves that they should urgently deal with with professional help.

kn

I've already been diagnosed with severe depression, I know what I'm talking about.

Pa

Then you should work directly on your poor judgment in your therapy.

kn

Only a friend would work as therapy. And my judgment is better than> 99% of the general population.

Pa

Sure, that's why you made such an inaccurate judgment about me. 👌

And if you ever find a girlfriend, I'm already sorry for her.