My little sister (14) does not seem to be really happy lately and at least since yesterday I have the suspicion that she is annoyed at school.
After the grades have been redistributed in this year's class, I think she has some problems with the people in her new class. Until yesterday I had a few small signs, but did not know anything, because she never wanted to talk about it. But when she came home yesterday in her sportswear and barefoot and without her bag and I asked her what happened, she started crying and at least told me a little something. Classmates have probably taken her stuff out of the cabin after social classes.
Our family is wealthy, and my sister looks very good, not only because I'm her brother, it seems to bother some in her class. However, she is also very shy and has therefore always had problems to approach others, but now she has no girlfriend at all and is actually the whole day just on her bed and watch series on Netflix. From time to time I can get her to do something with me, but I can easily imagine that she would like to do something with other girls and not only with her big brother. Of course, our parents take good care of her too, but she does not want to talk to anyone about her problems, I guess because she does not like it.
That can't go on, so I would like to ask you for tips on what you can do, even if she does not want to tell anything.
That could be the first signs. You could talk to my teacher sometimes daraf, if that does not help, then the rector.
I would clearly tell the girls - put them in their place. Show them how ridiculous they are. Best in a larger group (more than 3.4 it should already be). Have no fear. Show self-confidence. Still trying to win the empathy of the girls - get them to put themselves in the position of your sister.
What else does not help big in my opinion. The girls have their opinions about them and they will not change on their own.
Often it is just one person causing the bullying, the rest followers. You could also find this person and talk to her in person. About how stressful it is and also how mean, cold and disrespectful.
You should first talk to your parents about it and then find with teachers and a solution for it also you should give your sister definitely courage and say that they do that only because they have no self-confidence (I've also experienced bullying) because that is also the school performance is different she should look nice at smiles not evil but not sad and shoulders up then it will be boring for you if you ignore it and then it will stop too
Thank you for your answer. The problem is currently also the theft of things. All in all, we're talking about the items of about 1000 euro, but my sister refuses to file a complaint with the police because she is afraid that it will only get worse. Of course, this is not possible.
Many thanks for your response. I'm currently worried about the theft. If we sum up everything, we're with the items at about 1000 euro, which of course can't happen every week. However, my sister refuses to report that to the police and we need their statement.
This is what your parents have to do, and even if you or your parents go to school they will file a complaint
Honestly, completely independent that the behavior of the classmates is shabby and punishable, with such values you do not go to school. I can't comprehend that. As a guardian, your parents can make the ad.
First, however, would be the school principal.
We're not speaking here of a 1000 euro item, but of a combination that reaches about 1000 euro. I'm sure that's what some students achieve. Jacket, sweater, shirt, pants, shoes, sunglasses and a backpack with content, if you have branded things, you get there rather quickly.
