I'm 14 and I'm in 9th grade. I had a very weird dream yesterday but first the history. I'm not very popular with the girls in my class, but have a few w friends and a few m friends. A friend (transgender f to m) of mine saw me once that I looked at this boy (let's call him Matt) in class and asked me directly if I loved him. I said no because it was also the truth. And from that point on, my friends kept calling out his name and winking for fun. I'm that kind of person, I fall in love quickly and in situations like that it always ends up falling in love with the person I'm annoyed with. And that's the case. I wrote about it with my mate in the evening and then accidentally fell asleep briefly on the sofa and dreamed it: I was at Matt's at home and watched netflix and chilled. Then he leaned over to me and kissed me and carried me to his bed. Then he took off my shirt and then his and then we kissed more. Then the rest of the clothes were taken off and we had sex. I don't know what to do. I'm 14. Is that normal and what should I do?
Everyone has such dreams
Dreams are often very crazy, I also dreamed that I was gay and I rhymed a whole story. By now I know that I'm pretty straight.
It is perfectly normal. Both girls and boys. Such dreams are common, especially at a young age and in fresh love, since his consciousness is constantly thinking about this person. And everyone knows that if you experience something during the day, you often dream about it at night. The same principle applies here too. Sometimes such dreams can even be so intense that you orgasm while sleeping. That is also normal.
This reaction is normal. You are in the middle of puberty. The hormones are going crazy. Enjoy the dreams, but don't tell anyone in your class about them. At that age, the body adapts to being an adult. The thoughts and dreams surrounding sex will dominate everyday life, at least for a while. It comes and goes. The goal here is human reproduction. So this is all normal.
Treat the person at school as you always do. The person is sure to have dreams like this, and everyone else of that age does too. They get even more intense over the years, depending on which inclinations you develop. All OK. Later in old age, from about 35, such dreams and thoughts slowly decrease. You have arrived in life, family planning is complete and more important things dominate the dream and world of thoughts.
XD
Wasn't that funny, I felt pretty bad.
Oh I'm sorry
Such dreams are perfectly normal at 14. It probably won't turn out that way in reality, but it's perfectly normal for you to dream of sex too. And with some dreams it's just like that, you wake up the next morning and shake your head at what has been cleared.
Nothing happens.
