Boy goes to my breasts much too early?

So recently I was invited by a friend to hang out with him a bit. Of course, I knew right away that he was on me, and I thought he was nice, too. When we looked at something Netflix with him, I put my head playfully on his feet, to make him vl kiss me. Unfortunately that has caused the wrong reaction.

The boy grabbed me then unceremoniously under the shirt, touched my breasts and masiert him briefly. (I had no bra on)

Do not get me wrong, I actually liked it, and I would have let him touch my bust in due course, but that was way too early in that moment.

But I did not say anything, because actually I like it anyway. But it was just so sudden.

At that moment we had not kissed yet and we did not make out after the bus scrapper or anything like that.

What do you think about that? Should I not see him a second time or should I tell my parents? Or do I even have to report it to the police?

Well that's why men are unsure how to do it. Sometimes you do everything right and then everything is wrong again. We have to try it or not?

That was funny that then nothing more comb of him but he thought sure you show that you want to be kissed. It did not come so he pulls back. Thought you just want to cuddle. Logical for me.

Maybe women and men are just ticking something different.

Why the police? In that case, that would mean that reproduction would be impossible. Maybe not bad for our planet.

Then let me help you. Spontaneously grabbing a woman under the shirt directly to the chest is usually not a good idea.

Well there was already in what of mutual feelings and signals available. Or have I misunderstood?

Thanks, your comment really helped

I'm not sure, I have to say. There are differences between "I want sex with you" and "I like you". She apparently wanted to signal the latter, he understood the former. Where now the miscommunication was, I do not know.

And that is problem one. He did not verify, he did. In addition, problem two, most women find it rather semi-ordinary, when a man without any introduction or prehistory touches the chest. Together this results in: if you want to boast without detours to the breasts, then slowly. Hand under the shirt on the stomach and watch her respond.

Yes, you describe that well. I can't say from the written how well they already knew each other. The slow start with the belly is a good thing. Why must always be first a kiss and then a physical touch? Good is the rule but I had already experienced it differently and was accepted😍. In addition I think a woman should come here also a no. Because no is no and is a clear signal for us men. You can work much better with non verbal statements than many of us men.

Not yet kissing but massaging the breasts is clearly the wrong order, whoever participates in my opinion is not suitable for a longer relationship. I would have used this kind of thing just for a short sex relationship at this age

The problem is, she did not have a chance to say no in advance, because she did not expect that to happen. I mean, you do not start a TV evening on the sofa by defining where to touch is ok and where not. And in the situation that can be so surprising that it comes to a kind of deer-in-the-headlight effect.

The situation itself is also difficult to judge. I know too little. Either something in non-verbal communication has gone awry or it's over-whelming. I don't know.

Regardless, I think the problems I have mentioned remain. Exactly because we now have a very insecure presumably young girl who is overwhelmed with the situation. And that should not happen.

Yes, I can sign.