And I would like to know in which order you best watch fate… Since there are now dozens of seasons, OVAs, films and even a Netflix series…
I was also told that the Fate Order (?) Is a single anime, right?
The chronological order, which is also usually recommended for getting started
Fate / Zero >> Fate / Stay Night (it doesn't really matter whether you watch Fate / Stay Night (2006), Unlimited Blade Works or Heaven's Feel, but UBW is usually recommended as it is better produced than 2006 and HF is not yet is completed)
Everything else is a side story or alternative universe. I would recommend taking a look at the two series first so that you have a foundation for the universe. And if you are interested, you can sit down at the other incarnations if necessary.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/..._guide_v2/
The Anime-only order:
1. https://myanimelist.net/...lade_Works" class="text-primary">https://myanimelist.net/...lade_Works
2. Fate / stay night: Heavens Feel [https://myanimelist.net/anime/25537/Fate_stay_night_Movie__Heavens_Feel_-_I_Presage_Flower, https://myanimelist.net/..._Butterfly" class="text-primary">https://myanimelist.net/..._Butterfly, https://myanimelist.net/...ring_Song]" class="text-primary">https://myanimelist.net/...ring_Song] [The third and final movie hasn't released yet, it will be released in 2020.] (this may be skipped if it's a long ways off for you, but be warned Zero does spoil some aspects of Heaven's Feel. I suggest that you at least watch the first two movies for Heaven's Feel that are already released. Since the latest 2nd movie already covered the spoiler I'm talking about in a sense.)
3. https://myanimelist.net/.../Fate_Zero" class="text-primary">https://myanimelist.net/.../Fate_Zero [The prequel to fate / stay night. It takes place 10 years before the events of Fate / Stay Night.] (The prequel is meant to be watched after finishing Fate / Stay Night and not before.)
4. https://myanimelist.net/...Grace_Note [The series takes place 10 years after the events of Fate / Zero and 2 months before the events of Fate / stay night, and revolves around the Clock Tower in the United Kingdom.]
5. Others [https://myanimelist.net/anime/356/Fate_stay_night: (even though it's a pretty terrible adaptation, it still at least has some portions of the Fate route you missed. It comes before UBW in the watching order. I personally wouldn't recommend it and would recommend reading at least the Fate route from the Visual novel instead, but the choice is yours), https://myanimelist.net/...u_no_Gohan, OVAs.]
FGO Anime-only order:
1. https://myanimelist.net/...irst_Order [FGO -First Order- is the 74-minutes movie adaptation of the first chapter of Fate / Grand Order. Fate / Grand Order is a gacha RPG mobile game. FGO is not related to Fate / Stay Night. It's set in an alternate universe and timeline to Fate / Stay Night's. You should read the anime synopsis in the MAL link to learn more about the story.]
2. https://myanimelist.net/...__Agateram (the first movie will be released in 2020, but in terms of story order, it happens before Babylonia. This movie will cover the 6th singularity.)
3. https://myanimelist.net/..._Babylonia [https://myanimelist.net/anime/40206/Fate_Grand_Order__Zettai_Majuu_Sensen_Babylonia_-_Initium_Iter] (In all honesty, you should play FGO to get the full story of the previous singularities because the anime doesn't cover them, and their intention is not to cover most of them because these adaptations are for FGO players who played the game, and are not intended for anime watchers only. This anime covers the 7th singularity.)
4. https://myanimelist.net/...t_Lostroom [Is an anime short OVA original story. It serves as a transition between parts 1.5 and 2 of the game's story.]
The Intended order for people who want to read the Visual Novel:
1. https://www.reddit.com/...n_release/ [roughly 60 hours long, but 100% worth it!]
[After this point the order becomes very flexible, you can now follow the Anime-only order or this one]
2. https://vndb.org/v50 - https://www.reddit.com/...estaynight [> 50 hours long and is the direct sequel to Fate / Stay Night]
3. https://myanimelist.net/anime/10087/Fate_Zero [The prequel to Fate / Stay night. It takes place 10 years before the events of Fate / Stay Night.] (The prequel is meant to be watched after finishing Fate / Stay Night and not before.)
4. https://myanimelist.net/anime/22297/Fate_stay_night__Unlimited_Blade_Works
5. Fate / stay night: Heavens Feel [https://myanimelist.net/anime/25537/Fate_stay_night_Movie__Heavens_Feel_-_I_Presage_Flower, https://myanimelist.net/anime/33049/Fate_stay_night_Movie__Heavens_Feel_-_II_Lost_Butterfly, https://myanimelist.net/anime/33050/Fate_stay_night_Movie__Heavens_Feel_-_III_Spring_Song] [The third and final movie hasn't released yet
There's no official order. The series are mostly independent of each other.
Do you like action romance? Then start with https://www.wakanim.tv/...orks-omudt.
Do you like action / drama? Then start with https://www.wakanim.tv/...tezero-omu.
Are you interested in action and Isekai elements? Then start with https://www.wakanim.tv/...rder-omudt.
The following series are less beginner-friendly and should be ignored for the time being:
https://myanimelist.net/...ma%20Illya (you must have watched at least Fate / stay night)
https://myanimelist.net/...Fapocrypha
https://myanimelist.net/...20last%20e (you must have played the PSP game Fate / Extra at least once)
https://myanimelist.net/...Grace_Note (you must have watched Fate / zero)
Ugh, Fate / Grand Order and Fate / Extra Last Encore contain gaps.