What's going on now (girl, love)?

6 days ago a Japanese woman, whom I got to know via the Internet, moved in with me on short notice (2 days ago she left). We got on well all the time, were cuddling and kissing almost all the time and were almost always together. Only she was interested in a relationship, but I didn't reply. Nevertheless, as I said, we always got on well and it didn't seem to hit her too much. There was a day on which we (my family, she and I) were at the Christkindlmarkt and since I was busy with other (important) thoughts at that time, I didn't really talk much for once. However, she didn't really seem to mind and she walked next to my brother for the whole 2 hours and talked to him without even looking at me once. In itself not necessarily something reprehensible, but considering that she had confessed to me the day before, I find it a little strange not to even turn to his crush. In addition, we cuddled all the time during the car ride, which is why it can't be because she was offended / injured (at least I think so). When we got home from the market we watched Netflix in my room and kissed for a long time before she packed up and went on to a friend.

So she has been gone for 2 days now and wrote to me shortly after departure that she missed me incredibly and so, but after I answered with something like "I also like you" and asked how it was with my girlfriend, she didn't answer anymore. I've been waiting for a response for 2 days now and she even read my message. No answer even when asked again.

She said that she would come back to me before going back to Japan, but I'm not so sure about that at the moment. Should I forget them or just wait a bit?

Maybe her cell phone has been stolen or she misplaced it. Wait before you decide.

OK!

Can you call landlines, email or contact your girlfriend?

You said yourself, you can't have a relationship. Now you whine because she still doesn't pay attention to you all the time? And what exactly do you want to forget?

First of all i think that she would go the healthier way to ghost you. Obviously you think you are entitled to it and have your own affirmation. You react extremely jealously to the fact that she talks to your brother, then you become restless because she doesn't pay attention to you 24/7. Yes, she is in love with you. You don't want a relationship so let her do her thing and don't cry because she doesn't put an eye on you that she's sooo hurt. People don't wait forever, they keep going. Especially when feelings are involved in the game, I guess she will refrain now. Such initial feelings can change quickly if the man does not pursue the same goal.

Maybe you are lucky and she will get her fun from you again.

I ask myself too. How pointless.

Haha, I have to agree with you, but I wasn't really jealous. Rather astonished, as already mentioned, but you are right.

Why then all the time? I think it's understandable to be surprised that you don't get an answer for 2 days when it says you love someone and plan to come back.

She has reported again ^^

She dared to talk to your brother when you obviously didn't have time for her at all. And you're already guessing that she won't jump around you like a puppy in love.

If a friend doesn't answer for two days, that's the case. Do you have daily contact with every friend? Probably not. She neither. And you made it clear that you are only friends. She visits other people and may just be busy.

I don't criticize her a bit. Not even indirectly or "secretly". As you said, I made it clear that we're just friends. Still, I find it surprising not to look at his crush once. Maybe she has the ability to forget her crush after 10 minutes, but since that is not the case, it was surprising.

Of course, I have to agree with the rest of you.

People who have recently had their hearts broken often use opportunities to keep their distance. Apart from being too focused on a human being, it is rather unhealthy. I don't find the behavior unusual now, apart from the fact that many people are significantly more insecure in "meet the family" situations. Which speaks for rather than against them now

I don't quite understand the answer, but I guess you're right.