Friendzoned quite funny story?

Em
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It went very well so far. 2. Date I kissed her has accepted her. 3rd Date did not even want to hold my hand, she said she needed some time. 4. Date suggested her because I did not contact anymore, I should come to her Netflix and stuff. That was yesterday, then was with her all the time around smooched, cuddled and played around with her bit bissel. Today she has contacted us, so let's stay friends and so she has not developed any feelings and stuff like that. Asked her what I did wrong, she should have said that that was too much for her. You so ne I need time let's just stay friends. Now natoll, what do you say?

Hu

Gone stupid.

you can't do anything, accept that she has no feelings for you

Fr

Only because one smooches a bit, cuddles and fiddles do not develop feelings. If she does not feel it, you can't force that. So either be friends with her or break the contact.

St

You can't force feelings.

She likes you as a friend and finds you sympathetic. Maybe it plays in her too crazy because she finds you sympathetic but somehow no feelings arise.

Em

Yes quite funny have made all the time around and always compliment given but joa, you can't do anything.

Em

Yeah thanks.

Hu

Well, then you stay friends or go your way.

What do you want to hear?

She tried, was not sure herself, and made a decision now, with the head and not the hormones. That's legit, she always told you what's up. That's not nice to you, but it's the way it is.

Hu

And if I look at your comments like this:

She wants a partner for whom she has feelings, you obviously want to find someone for physicality and think that with a few compliments and some fumbling you can achieve that. That does not fit together, she has recognized it and has drawn consequences. Clean solution.

Ye

Friendship +? You can't explain feelings. And maybe she does not have enough for what you give her. Maybe you give her the feeling that you have a lot of feelings and she just can't (still) reciprocate her. Girls become or often put themselves under pressure, so I would suggest that you simply ask what exactly you want and if you might want to take it easy.