Am (15) and my aunt (30). I've been in love with my aunt for about 1 year, she is beautiful in appearance and character. I often stay with her, we mostly watch Netflix, talk and play games. She has no children and is not married.
I wonder if I should tell her. I'm really in love with her. I already had two relationships because I thought that my feelings towards her would decrease. But it stayed the same.
Should I tell her?
Well… I wouldn't tell her and I personally don't expect her to feel THIS kind of love for you. She likes you… Of course she likes you, because you are her nephew and she seems to have a great relationship with one another, if necessary. Does she find it very pleasant to have a child around her after she doesn't have her own.
Otherwise, nothing in her behavior shows me specifically that she would really feel something for you in this romantic way.
In this respect… Don't tell her, but rather wait. You are in puberty and this is a phase in which the body goes a little crazy… If you still feel something for her in 5 years and the conditions are still the same, you might have to worry about telling yourself, because purely legally, the relationship between aunt and nephew would not be a problem or falling would not fall under the scope of §173 STGB.
Currently, even if she perceives something for you per se, your minority would probably still be a problem.
Yes, … Tell her… Don't be afraid or fear. What happens afterwards is up to you, even if it is not legally legal and correct understand… What you want to allow and what you can answer. And / or watch the film "THE READER" with her (positively speaking). It could be that your world will be much more beautiful, loving, colorful and much more afterwards. For you as well as for you. I keep my fingers crossed for you with all my heart.
No, definitely not! Then she would withdraw, then you have nothing at all. Enjoy the time you can spend with her, but be aware that she loves you as a nephew and never sees a man in you or not more than your developmental level.
You are in the middle of puberty, you can already rave about someone. Many dream of unreachable stars or athletes, you love your aunt. But please understand that as a woman she is just as unavailable to you as her idols from the world of music or sports.
It is nice if you like the aunt and you admire her, but please spare yourself and her the embarrassment of having to reject you and you, that of being rejected.
Leave everything as it is and it's good.
Head up, you'll fall in love with a girl who suits you. But that will probably take a little longer. Be patient!
Do you understand what you are advising a puberty 15 year old? With this answer you destroy the harmonious relationship between aunt and nephew if he wants to stick to it. I hope he is smart enough to join the majority.
I don't know where your problem is… It reads so jealous and jealous. Can't everyone decide for themselves what they do and what they don't? Are you moral guard dogs here? In the end, we do not know why it really went on or going.---- I could also ask you if you know what you could have done with your negative answer or possibly do. He could be anxious now sitting on a bridge and possibly jumping because you are scaring him, he could be depressed and at risk of becoming depressed and sucid. So what do you want from me? DIVORCE ENOUGH THE MAJORITY? May or shouldn't he have his own youth experiences, his own opinion, his own experiences of everything here? Yes, I agree with it, … And I'll stick with it… Even if some of you don't like it here.-------- For me it was a positive and wonderful experience. (I 15 years, you 26 years and? I'm DEAD NOW; DIRTY OR OTHER?
I expected nothing else from you…
You certainly didn't do it with your aunt. So first switch your brain up a gear, if the lever is not stuck, it seems to have shifted slightly.
