Have a bob cut?

Sc
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I saw the series Jupiter's Legacy on Netflix yesterday and absolutely fell in love with the hairstyle of one actress in the flashbacks. The hairstyle is called bob hairstyle.

https://images.app.goo.gl/RJbDKuKDEferL1Tq7

I would like to have my hair cut like that.

Do you find the hairstyle too special / old-fashioned?

I've already had a bob, of course it was a bit longer than this hairstyle, but I liked it at the time.

The problem is, my boyfriend likes long hair, it always leads to discussions when I want my hair cut and in the end I only cut the tips to love him. Should I talk to him about it or just do it? I've been wishing for a change for a long time but I think he won't like it, but it's my hair after all.

How do you like the hairstyle and how would you handle that with your partner?

Pu

Personally, I think the hairstyle is terrible, it's not something I like.

But if you like it: Go for it. It is your body and that should be the most important thing.

The problem is, my boyfriend likes long hair, it always leads to discussions when I want my hair cut and in the end I only cut the tips to love him. Should I talk to him about it or just do it? I've been wishing for a change for a long time but I think he won't like it, but it's my hair after all.

I see the fact that he reacts very critically.

Yes it is your hair. And I would tell him that too.

Ce

Um… No, please don't do that… It's just awful!

wa

This hairstyle wouldn't be anything to me, but if you like it, why not? After all, YOU should feel comfortable in YOUR body.

Sc

So bad? 😕

Ce

Yes, unfortunately, I couldn't even look at the picture properly and the thought that a young woman today wants to have a cut like that. No, that doesn't fit…

But you have to know what suits you and how you want to wear your hair.

Sc

I know of course that it is my decision, but I find the discussions with my boyfriend about it quite exhausting.

But nobody thinks the hairstyle is beautiful either, in the end I would have to justify myself over and over again, and then I don't want that either.

Pu

But nobody thinks the hairstyle is beautiful either, in the end I would have to justify myself over and over again, and then I don't want that either.

I would rather ask myself why you have to justify yourself in front of people just because they don't like that?
Regardless of whether I like the hairstyle in principle or not - if it is on someone I like and it looks good on the person I say that too and don't ask "WHY DID YOU HAVE YOU GOT THIS? - it's not my thing, I'm sure half of the people also find my hairstyle unsuitable.

but I find the discussions with my boyfriend about it quite exhausting.

also here: Why are there discussions at all? There's nothing to discuss, your head, your hair. He can say he prefers long hair, but you don't care.
I also prefer long hair, didn't stop my ex-boyfriend from going bald and I still liked him.

Sc

Basically you are right, it is nobody else's business, but I still have the worry that I will then simply notice that my environment reacts negatively to me, or in the end I find out that it is maybe really not nice and then it is me pulls down. The reactions here are also negative.

be

So I think the hairstyle is great and at the same time I find it questionable that you align yourself with your friend like that

Ph

This hairstyle is very special and should match the head shape and type and style. The micropony does not suit every woman.

I don't like it, it is neither short nor long, and the bangs…

We'd be happy if you upload your picture online and take a look at hairstyles.

https://www.brigitte.de/beauty/frisuren/frisuren--virtuelle-frisurenberatung-10111282.html

Good succeed.