I'm 17 & met a boy about a month ago. He is very loving to me & I think I also have feelings for him but I'm not sure. He has been here a few times always 5h and we just chilled, that is Netflix & sO
in the beginning it was good we also cuddled but then the mood was funny too.
I had a relationship that wasn't going well with him & I was very hurt and I really really liked him. The current boy recently asked me in the middle of the night if I wanted to be with him & I was overwhelmed and said yes. But I'm totally overwhelmed & unsure
This boy is so nice and takes care of me which is really rare these days & I have the feeling I just can't appreciate it. I'm sooo incredibly insecure and I don't really know if I'm in love. The bad thing is this boy is really great if I would finish it I knew I would want him more then (that's my way I only appreciate things when they're gone I work on them)
what should I do?
my brain swiped you all the time I think it's great and afterwards I think no I just enjoy being treated well. Oh man I feel so bad because he does everything right. Maybe I'm aucz and all over my ex boyfriend. Send help please
How i would solve it:
Wait until I know more about my feelings.
Just stay with him when I'm really in love with him, otherwise it will be difficult to have a relationship with him. It would also break his heart even more if you didn't tell him what I was feeling as early as possible.
and another thing:
you don't have to feel guilty because you can't control your feelings…
You poor! Really stupid situation.
sometimes you are not yet aware of your feelings, I think being in love develops over time, you like him very much but you are still with your head with your ex, so you can't allow it completely (my mind game). I would just wait and see, you deserve to be treated well so enjoy it! However, be careful not to give the poor boy any false hopes or keep him warm. As soon as you notice, there's nothing! You usually notice that when kissing. I would end it immediately. He will be grateful to you and you too!
There's something in any case. But somehow I can't allow it
